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What should I do if my friend doesn't want to talk to me?

If your friend doesn't want to talk, give them some space, then calmly ask how they feel.

Sometimes a friend doesn't want to talk because they feel hurt, sad, or tired. It might not be about you at all — maybe they just had a bad day or have another problem. First, give them a little time. Don't push them.

After waiting a bit, you can calmly ask, 'Did something happen? Do you want to talk?' If they still don't want to, don't push. You can say, 'I'm here when you're ready.' Remember, everyone needs to be alone sometimes.

If this goes on for a long time and it makes you feel sad, you can tell a grown-up you trust. A teacher or someone in your family can help you.

Quick facts

  • Everyone needs to be alone sometimes.
  • Someone who doesn't want to talk might not be angry — they might just be thinking.
  • Asking a question in a calm voice can help.
  • Pushing someone can sometimes make things harder.
  • Talking to a grown-up you trust can make you feel better.

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1. What should you do if your friend doesn't want to talk?

2. What does it always mean when someone doesn't want to talk?

3. Who can you tell if the problem doesn't go away?

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